New Hampshire Gov. Kelly Ayotte (R) vetoed an anti-transgender bathroom and sports bill last Friday. Republicans in the state legislature won’t likely have enough votes to override her veto.
The bill, S.B. 268, sought to carve out exceptions to the state’s 2018 anti-discrimination laws (which protect people from discrimination on the basis of “gender identity”) and ban trans people from accessing any restrooms, locker rooms, prisons, detention centers, and non-voluntary treatment centers that match their gender identity. Furthermore, the bill sought to ban trans women from any “athletic or sporting events or competitions” in which “biological males” have physical advantages.
“There are certain limited circumstances in which classification of persons based on biological sex is proper because such classification serves the compelling state interests of protecting the privacy rights and physical safety of such persons and others,” the bill stated, echoing right-wing rhetoric about trans people being a risk to other people’s safety, especially in locker rooms and toilets.
The broadly written bill neither explained how the law would be enforced nor provided any special penalties for violating it. As such, enforcement would have likely depended on individuals filing complaints if they shared a facility with a trans person, leaving state legal authorities to investigate and prosecute such claims.
“I vetoed a nearly identical bill to this one last year,” said Gov. Ayotte, according to The New Hampshire Bulletin. “I made it clear this issue needed to be addressed in a thoughtful, narrow way that protects the privacy, safety, and rights of all Granite Staters. Unfortunately, there is minimal difference between Senate Bill 268 and the bill I vetoed last year, which [Republican] Governor [Chris] Sununu vetoed the year prior.”
When Gov. Ayotte vetoed a similar bill last year, she said, “I believe there are important and legitimate privacy and safety concerns raised by biological males using places such as female locker rooms and being placed in female correctional facilities. At the same time, I see that [this bill] is overly broad and impractical to enforce, potentially creating an exclusionary environment for some of our citizens.”
It’s unlikely that Republican state legislators will have the votes they need to override Gov. Ayotte’s veto in both chambers. New Hampshire state law requires a two-thirds majority vote in both the House of Representatives and the Senate to override a governor’s veto. While the 16 Republicans in the state’s 24-member Senate could reach that threshold, the 222 Republican legislators in the state’s 400-member House could not.
“This is a huge relief for every transgender or gender nonconforming person in New Hampshire,” said Aimee Terravechia, executive director of the statewide LGBTQ+ organization 603 Equality. “In a time of unrelenting legislative attacks and misinformation campaigns around transgender people and their rights, Gov. Ayotte’s veto affirms the basic rights and dignity for all Granite Staters. Transgender and gender nonconforming people deserve safe access to public spaces as they go about living, working, and contributing to our communities. Bathroom bans simply have no place in New Hampshire.”
Heidi Carrington Heath, executive director of NH Outright, said, “This veto is a win for the Granite State, and sends a much-needed message to LGBTQ+ youth and families that they are welcomed and valued members of our communities. Today, Governor Ayotte stood in a long tradition of New Hampshire values protecting freedom and individual liberty. Like all youth, our LGBTQ+ young people deserve access to all of the spaces and places they need to thrive, and this veto helps ensure they can continue to do just that.”
Chris Erchull, senior staff attorney at GLAD Law, said,“We’re pleased with Governor Ayotte’s veto of S.B. 268, which keeps the bipartisan nondiscrimination law passed in 2018 intact and ensures all Granite Staters – including our transgender friends, neighbors, and co-workers – continue to have fair and safe access to our public spaces. Though S.B. 268 will not be the last politically motivated attack on LGBTQ+ people we have to confront in this legislative session, this is a moment worth celebrating – and an opportunity for more Granite Staters to come together in support of fairness, dignity, and freedom for all.”
Virginia Gov. Abigail Spanberger (D) signed legislation that sent several potential state constitutional amendments to voters this past Friday, including a measure that would remove the state’s ban on same-sex marriage from the state constitution, which was originally passed in 2006.
While the state’s ban on marriage equality has not been enforced since the 2015 Obergefell v. Hodges Supreme Court decision, which legalized marriage equality in all 50 states, advocates for its removal say that it is discriminatory and could be enforced if Obergefell were ever overturned.
“We want to make sure that Virginia families know that here in Virginia, it is not just a Supreme Court decision that protects them, but it is also our state constitution,” Spanberger said in comments during the signing ceremony. “It’ll be a big step for Virginia to ensure that every family knows that Virginia is a place that welcomes them, appreciates them, and sees them for the wonderful family and Virginians that they are.”
“So before I get too emotional on that one, I will start signing.”
LGBTQ+ issues played a large role in the 2025 Virginia gubernatorial campaign, with Republican candidate Winsome Earle-Sears running ads throughout the election season that accused Spanberger of wanting “boys to play sports and share locker rooms with little girls” and letting “children change genders without telling their parents.”
At a debate later in the year, Spanberger pointed out Earle-Sears’ opposition to anti-discrimination laws and her opposition to marriage equality. Earle-Sears blurted out, “That’s not discrimination!” when Spanberger brought up how Earle-Sears believes “it’s OK for someone to be fired from their job for being gay.”
LGBTQ+ advocates hailed the marriage ballot initiative measure.
“Twenty years after banning marriage equality, it’s time for our commonwealth to fully complete our evolution – and finish the job on protecting marriage equality for all,” said Equality Virginia Executive Director Narissa Rahaman in a statement. “It’s up to all of us to vote on November 3, 2026 to safeguard marriage for all Virginians and remove the stain that exists in our constitution. We have come too far over the past 20 years to have any doubt that Virginia voters will support love and dignity for all couples this November.”
Spanberger also signed a bill that will send a reproductive rights amendment to voters in the fall. The proposed amendment would give Virginians a right to reproductive health care and include IVF, contraception, and abortion.
“This amendment protects families’ entire scope of reproductive needs,” said state Sen. Jennifer Boysko (D), who introduced it in the Virginia Senate.
“I look forward to spending ample time in advance of the 2026 elections campaigning to make sure that people understand the importance of this constitutional amendment,” Gov. Spanberger said last year, according to the Virginia Mercury.
Spanberger sent two other constitutional amendments to voters on Friday. One would automatically restore voting rights for convicted felons who finished their prison sentences (they currently have to appeal to the governer after their sentences are over to get their voting rights back), and the other would allow the state’s General Assembly to change the state’s congressional district map in the middle of decades in order to respond to other states doing the same, according to WOBC.
A woman who sued her doctors over a breast removal surgery she received when she was 16 and identified as transgender has been awarded $2 million in damages, marking the first time a detransitioner has won a medical malpractice lawsuit over the care they received as part of their transition.
Multiple right-wing news outlets are calling the decision “historic,” but even the woman’s lawyer is downplaying its significance, insisting the case was never about “the legitimacy of gender-affirming care.”
As The Free Press first reported, on Friday, a jury in New York State sided with 22-year-old Fox Varian, who sued her psychologist and a plastic surgeon, accusing them of failing to adhere to standards of care around gender-affirming care for minors. According to the New York Times, Varian claimed that her doctors did not obtain adequate consent or adequately inform her of the risks associated with a double mastectomy she received in 2019 and came to regret.
As multiple outlets have reported, Varian suffered from depression, anxiety, social phobia, eating disorders, and body-image issues as an adolescent, and was diagnosed with autism at 14. Court documents reportedly show she began questioning her gender at 15. She changed her name multiple times, used he/him pronouns, began binding her breasts, and told her psychologist, Kenneth Einhorn, that she wanted to transition.
According to both the New York Times and the Epoch Times, Einhorn, who has no formal training in treating transgender patients, claimed in court that Varian insisted she needed top surgery. In October 19, nine months after Varian expressed a desire to transition, Einhorn referred her to plastic surgeon Simon Chin.
Crucially, however, Einhorn referred to Varian’s diagnosis as “body dysmorphia” rather than gender dysphoria in his letter to Chin. He also reportedly referred her to an LGBTQ+ nonprofit center for additional counseling, where Varian continued to express uncertainty about her gender. However, Einhorn never followed up with the center. According to the Epoch Times, both Einhorn and Chin admitted in court that had they known about Varian’s continued uncertainty, they would not have referred her for the surgery or performed it.
As both the Epoch Times and the New Republic noted, the jury was not asked to issue a verdict on whether minors should receive gender-affirming surgeries — such procedures are already exceptionally rare — but whether Einhorn and Chin had adhered to accepted standards of care.
Dr. Loren Schechter, president-elect of the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH), which sets medical standards for gender-related care, even testified as an expert witness on behalf of Varian. Schechter testified that he believed the Einhorn and Chin’s decision to approve the surgery was based on “assumption and inference,” according to the New York Times.
“This case was a medical malpractice case, not a referendum on gender-affirming care,” WPATH said in a statement following the verdict. “When care is delivered ethically and responsibly within these guidelines, the integrity of the field is strengthened.”
Similarly, Varian’s lawyer, Adam Deutsch, issued a statement echoing arguments he’d made in court. “This was never a debate over the legitimacy of gender-affirming care,” he said, according to the Times. “It was about whether medical professionals met the standards that covered their own profession.”
Einhorn and Chin “just didn’t have the experience to deal with someone questioning their gender identity,” Deutsch added. “At the bottom of all of this was a lack of collaboration between the two of them, and lack of communication to follow through.”
At the same time, Benjamin Ryan, an independent journalist who covered the case for The Free Press and who has been critical of gender-affirming care for minors, suggested in a video promoting his reporting that the verdict “could help reshape the legal landscape around youth gender medicine.”
Describing the jury’s verdict as “decisive and historic,” Ryan said that Varian’s case “marks a turning point” and “could contribute to a reckoning over lax assessment standards by care providers when they consider whether irreversible medical interventions should be offered or given to minors with gender dysphoria.”
He said the case “signals a growing wave of detransitioners turning to the courts” and noted that by his count, nearly 30 similar civil cases are currently working their way through courts across the U.S. But as the Times noted, it remains unclear what impact Varian’s case will have on other cases.
Following Friday’s verdict, the American Society of Plastic Surgeons (ASPS) released a statement advising against conducting “gender-related breast/chest, genital, and facial surgery” on people under the age of 19. While the February 3 statement does not mention the Varian case, as the Times notes, it marks the first time a major American medical association has shifted its guidance on gender-affirming care for minors.
A rainbow pride flag has been removed from the Stonewall National Monument in Greenwich Village because of a directive from the Trump administration — outraging LGBTQ New Yorkers and local elected officials who feel the move will “erase our history.”
Apparently following orders from a Jan. 21 memo from the U.S. Department of the Interior, the large pride flag was removed from the monument in Christopher Park near the Stonewall Inn over the weekend, according to local elected officials.
“It’s an outrage that really strikes at the heart of the LGBTQ community’s human rights movement,” Manhattan Borough President Brad Hoylman-Sigal said. “Stonewall is the birthplace of the contemporary human rights movement and to have the federal administration, Donald Trump, remove the pride flag that has been there proudly for decades is an affront to New Yorkers and all Americans who care about human rights.”
The federal memo notes that flagpoles and buildings under the jurisdiction of the U.S. General Services Administration, which the monument is under, “are not intended to serve as a forum for free expression by the public.”
“Only the U.S. flag, flags of the Department of the Interior, and the POW/MIA flag will be flown by the National Parks Service in public spaces where the NPS is responsible for the upkeep, maintenance, and operation of the flag and flagpole,” the memo states.
Hoylman-Sigal said that he and other local, state and federal officials plan to raise a rainbow flag back up the flagpole in protest on Thursday. He noted the Trump administration previously removed references to transgender people from the Stonewall Monument’s government website.
“I really think this is about standing up for the future of the LGBTQ community, just as those Stonewall veterans back in 1969 did the same,” Hoylman-Sigal said. “To me, it’s deeply personal as an out LGBTQ elected official, but also as a parent. What lesson are we sending to our young people about their family members, their parents, their friends at school or themselves?”
A spokesperson for the National Park service said in a statement the removal was in line with longstanding rules.
“The policy governing flag displays on federal property has been in place for decades,” the statement said. “Recent guidance clarifies how that longstanding policy is applied consistently across NPS-managed sites.”
“Stonewall National Monument continues to preserve and interpret the site’s historic significance through exhibits and programs,” the statement adds.
There are “limited exceptions” to the rule, according to the statement. Non-agency flags can be flown “for a specific special occasion” or “as an expression of the federal government’s official sentiments,” the memo said.
No flags were flying on the poles at the Stonewall Monument on Tuesday, although several small pride flags were peppered around the park.
Sen. Charles Schumer called the removal of the flag a “deeply outrageous action that must be reversed right now.”
“New Yorkers are right to be outraged, but if there’s one thing I know about this latest attempt to rewrite history, stoke division and discrimination and erase our community pride, it’s this: That flag will return,” he added. “New Yorkers will see to it.”
The Stonewall National Monument visitor center was open but workers declined to comment on the new directive.
Stonewall was designated a national monument by President Barack Obama in 2016. The riot at the Stonewall Inn in 1969 is recognized as the beginning of the LGBTQ movement in the U.S.
Longtime Village resident Mimi McGurl, 62, was stunned by what she saw as a smack in the face against the LGBTQ community.
“This is our home,” she said. “This is where we can feel safe and comfortable. And, I think that’s not what his administration wants. I don’t think they want us to ever feel safe and comfortable, unless we’re in a closet.”
Julie Muzina, a trans woman from Buffalo, just signed a lease on an apartment near Christopher Park, partly because the monument was nearby.
“This (whole area) is like a symbol of love,” Muzina, 26, told the Daily News as she looked over the park. “(Now) there’s like a gaping hole in the middle of it.”
“We’re still here. We’re not going anywhere,” she added. “You’re removing a flag in an area that is just going to be louder because you’ve done it.”
“This is an attack on LGBTQ+ New Yorkers, and we will not stand for it,” she wrote on X. “Our history will not be rewritten, and our rights will not be rolled back.”
In this powerful conversation, we sit down with Rowan Murphy, co-author of Why Are We Like This? Stories of Transformation, a book exploring the extraordinary global response to Netflix’s Heartstopper. Rowan shares his personal journey as a transgender gay man in his early 50s, including: His lived experience navigating identity, visibility, and authenticity Why he ultimately chose to leave the United States How growing civil rights restrictions on LGBTQ people are shaping real-life decisions The deep emotional and psychological impact Heartstopper has had on LGBTQ audiences worldwide.
Kansas Republicans are trying to take away currently valid driver’s licenses from transgender people in the state if they have corrected the gender marker on them in a new bill that has also been expanded – under a sneaky maneuver that allows changes to a bill without a public hearing – to be one of the “most extreme” bathroom bills in the nation.
H.B. 2426 was already very anti-trans. It defines “gender” under the law in terms of “chromosomes,… hormones, gonads and nonambiguous internal and external genitalia present at birth” and says that driver’s licenses can only have someone’s sex assigned at birth on it. The bill instructs the state government to invalidate all driver’s licenses that do not have a gender marker on them that reflects a person’s sex assigned at birth and to reissue new driver’s licenses.
But state Republican lawmakers expanded the bill last week, adding a strict anti-trans bathroom ban to a bill already seeking to ban trans Kansanians from changing the gender markers on their driver’s licenses.
The legislators used a state procedure called gut-and-go, which allows lawmakers to completely replace an existing bill’s language with pretty much anything they want while bypassing a public hearing.
Even before the addition of the bathroom amendment, Kansas lawmakers were already trying to push the bill through with as little public input as possible.
Republicans introduced the gender marker aspect of the bill with less than 24 hours’ notice before a public hearing. But residents nonetheless rose to the occasion, submitting hundreds of testimonies opposing the bill.
“You had a bill introduced one day at 3:58 p.m., it was scheduled for a hearing the next day, less than 24 hours notice,” state House minority leader Brandon Woodard (D) told theTopeka Capital-Journal. “Testimony had to be submitted by 10 a.m., and yet Kansans cobbled together hundreds of pieces of testimony that we were still able to print and submit.”
Republicans, Woodard said, “do those sorts of things in an attempt to shield. They know that the public’s not on the side with them. That’s not civil. When we delivered those pieces of testimony, the committee assistant said, ‘Oh my goodness, this is going to take me days and days to upload.’ I said, ‘Next time, the chair should consider giving people and Kansans a couple of days notice.’”
After all that, the Republicans weren’t done. Democrats are enraged over the addition of the bathroom amendment, proposed by State Rep. Bob Lewis (R). “We all thought that this bill was probably a bathroom bill, and now it’s showing its true colors,” state Rep. John Carmichael (D) told the Kansas Reflector.
“What this bill is about, with this amendment, is making it so that people who are transgender or people who are intersex have no safe place to go to the bathroom.”
“This is an attempt to obfuscate what we’re doing here,” Carmichael added. “If you’re in favor of a lack of transparency, if you’re in favor of taking bill numbers and playing them like a shell game, this is the amendment for you.”
Lewis claimed the amendment was “for privacy concerns and for public safety concerns.”
“I think this is a necessary bill,” he told the Capital-Journal.
Trans journalist Erin Reed called the bill “the most extreme anti-transgender measure in the United States,” explaining that it could punish trans people who use the bathroom that does not align with their sex assigned at birth with a misdemeanor with possible jail time.
But what “turbocharges it,” she said, is a provision allowing individual people to sue trans people for using the bathroom they deem “incorrect.”
“Critically, nothing in the provision limits its application to publicly owned buildings,” Reed explained. “As written, it would not only be the first bathroom bounty law to target transgender people directly, but also the first to extend a bathroom ban into private spaces—effectively creating the nation’s first private bathroom ban if enacted by empowering bounty hunters to search for trans people in bathrooms.”
Reed said she confirmed with multiple legal experts and lawmakers that, despite the bill appearing to only target public spaces, it would also apply to private bathrooms.
The bill is supported by Kansas Attorney General Kris Kobach (R). Republicans have made it a major priority and are trying to pass it as quickly as possible. Democratic Kansas Gov. Laura Kelly will likely veto it if it makes it to her desk.
“If passed,” Reed said, “what follows would be the bill’s most consequential test: an effort to override that veto in a Legislature where Republicans currently hold a veto-proof majority, but where some may view the bill as too extreme. For transgender people in the state, that effort may be the most consequential in years.”
The Spanish government has announced a plan to legalise the status of undocumented migrants, a measure expected to benefit at least half a million people.
Regularisation will be available to foreign nationals who do not have a criminal record and can prove they lived in Spain for at least five months prior to 31 December 2025.
“This is an historic day for our country,” said Elma Saiz, Spain’s minister of inclusion, social security and migration.
The measure will provide beneficiaries with an initial one-year residence permit, which can then be extended. Requests for legalisation are expected to begin in April and the process will remain open until the end of June.
“We are reinforcing a migratory model based on human rights, integration, co-existence and which is compatible with economic growth and social cohesion,” Saiz said.
Spain has seen a large influx of migrants in recent years, mainly from Latin America.
The conservative think-tank Funcas found that the number of undocumented migrants in Spain had risen from 107,409 in 2017 to 837,938 in 2025 – an eight-fold increase.
The highest number of undocumented arrivals currently living in Spain are believed to be from Colombia, Peru and Honduras.
Spain’s socialist-led coalition government has been an outlier on this issue among the larger European nations, underlining the importance of migrants for the economy.
The country has been outperforming the other main EU economies in recent years, posting expected growth of close to 3% in 2025.
Unemployment, a longstanding weakness of the Spanish economy, has dipped below 10% for the first time since 2008, according to figures released on Tuesday.
Prime Minister Pedro Sánchez has described immigrants as representing “wealth, development and prosperity” for Spain, pointing to their contribution to the social security system.
The government and parties on the left have also emphasised the need to treat migrants in a humane way.
“Providing rights is the answer to racism,” said Irene Montero, of the far-left Podemos party and a former minister in a coalition government with the Socialists.
She has campaigned for this measure, which followed an agreement between the party and the government. A civic legislative proposal, calling for a mass migrant regularisation, received the support of around 700,000 people but had been languishing in parliament.
This measure will be approved by royal decree, meaning it does not require parliamentary approval.
It is the first large-scale migrant regularisation in Spain for two decades.
Several such initiatives, by governments of both the Socialists and the conservative People’s Party (PP), legalised the status of an estimated half a million migrants between 1986 and 2005.
However, Alberto Núñez Feijóo, leader of the PP, said the latest mass legalisation would “increase the pull effect and overwhelm our public services”.
Pepa Millán, spokeswoman for the far-right Vox, said the initiative “attacks our identity”, adding that the party would appeal before the Supreme Court in a bid to block it.
Two of Wisconsin’s largest pediatric hospitals have stopped providing gender-affirming care for transgender youth, Wisconsin Public Radio reports.
Children’s Wisconsin and University of Wisconsin (UW) Health have ended the treatment for minors, after pressure from the Trump administration. Advocates say the end of gender-affirming medical care will lead to negative mental health effects for trans youth.
In a statement, Children’s Wisconsin cited “escalating legal and federal regulatory risk” facing providers across the nation as the reason it is “currently unable to provide gender-affirming pharmacologic care.” The hospital added that LGBTQ+ children should be treated with “support, respect, dignity, and compassion.”
The hospital will continue to offer mental health services for patients and families.
In December, the Department of Health and Human Services, under the direction of Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr., announced plans to end all Medicaid and Medicare funding for hospitals that provide gender-affirming care to minors.
“Under my leadership, and answering President Trump’s call to action, the federal government will do everything in its power to stop unsafe, irreversible practices that put our children at risk,” Kennedy said, announcing the funding threat. “This administration will protect America’s most vulnerable. Our children deserve better — and we are delivering on that promise.”
In reality, gender-affirming medications for young people are considered by every major American medical association to be safe, reversible, and essential to the well-being of trans youth.
UW Health said its hospital system will pause prescribing puberty blockers and hormone therapy for patients under 18 years old “due to recent federal actions.” The hospital remains committed to providing “high-quality, compassionate” care to LGBTQ+ patients, officials said in a statement.
“We recognize the uncertainty faced by our impacted patients and families seeking this gender-affirming care and will continue to support their health and well-being,” they said.
Steve Starkey, executive director for OutReach LGBTQ+ Community Center in Madison, said the consequences of ending the care will be grave.
“It will definitely have a negative impact on the rates of suicide, and the mental health of the trans community” in general, he said. “It affects trans adults as well, because it’s like an attack on all trans people.”
Starkey pointed to rates of suicide and suicidal ideation, which are already high for the trans community.
A 2023 study by the Williams Institute at the UCLA School of Law found that more than 80% of trans adults had suicidal thoughts, while more than 40% had attempted suicide.
“For trans people of all ages, being able to express themselves in the gender that they feel that they are is important for their mental and physical health,” Starkey said. “By not allowing trans people to do that, to have the support, it just means that they are not able to be wholly who they are.”
In the last week alone, hospitals and clinics in Orange County, Riverside, and San Diego, California — and in Tacoma, Washington too — announced plans to shutter gender-affirming care programs for trans youth.
A year ago this week, Trump issued an executive order vowing to end what he called the “chemical and surgical mutilation” of children with gender-affirming care. Republicans have used these terms to outrage people and vilify medical providers of the care, but puberty blockers and hormone replacement therapies don’t “mutilate” kids, and gender-affirming surgeries are rarely (if ever) conducted on minors.
A protester at Children’s Hospital of Orange County this week described the same care as life-saving.
“I’m a transgender woman, and I’m here to tell you that denying people this gender-affirming care doesn’t make gender dysphoria go away,” Stephanie Wade, chair of Lavender Democrats of Orange County, told LAist. “All it does is make it metastasize into suicidal depression. And I’ve been there. I dealt with this as a child. We can’t take this away from kids.”
If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Call or text 988 or chat at 988lifeline.org. The Trans Lifeline (1-877-565-8860) is staffed by trans people and will not contact law enforcement. The Trevor Project provides a safe, judgement-free place to talk for youth via chat, text (678-678), or phone (1-866-488-7386). Help is available at all three resources in English and Spanish.
Hola, future LGBTQ+ immigrant! When I first considered moving to Mexico, I was excited but also nervous about the unknowns. Having made the leap, I’ve discovered a country full of beauty, surprises, and opportunities for personal growth. Whether you’re seeking adventure, a lower cost of living, or a fresh start, Mexico has something for everyone. However, a smooth transition requires careful planning.
In this guide, I’ll share the lessons I’ve learned—from finding a home to navigating daily life—so you can start your journey with confidence.
VISA PROCESS – HOW TO LEGALLY LIVE IN MEXICO
To live in Mexico long-term, expats typically need a residency visa. There are many people who travel back and forth from the USA and leverage the “180 days” when entering Mexico. The downside to this approach is that it is up to the officer stamping passports at the airport and you can easily get less than 180 days.
Temporary Resident Visa
Ideal for those looking to stay in Mexico for up to four years, this visa requires proof of financial solvency.
Permanent Resident Visa
This visa is for individuals who plan to stay in Mexico indefinitely and provides nearly the same rights as Mexican citizens, except for voting.
Work Visa
If you plan to work for a Mexican employer, you’ll need a work visa, which typically requires a job offer from a Mexican company. Many LGBTQ+ expats work remotely for employers abroad, which can be done under temporary or permanent residency.
Financial Requirements (estimates for 2026)
Residency visas require proof of income and/or savings. Requirements vary and can change due to exchange rates, so it’s best to check with the Mexican consulate you will apply. Below are the estimates for 2026. These vary by consulate and currency fluctuations impact them. So take these as directional.
Temporary Residency: Approximately $74,500 – $87,599 USD/$98,000 – $112,500 CDN in Savings (monthly ending balance for the last 12 months) or $4,500-$5,250 USD/$5,800-$6,750 CDN a month in retirement or income
Permanent Residency: Approximately $280,000- $350,000 USD/$350,000-$450,000 CDN in Savings (monthly ending balance for the last 12 month) or $7,200-$8,750 USD/$9,800 – $11,250 CDN a month in retirement income (there may be some consulates that consider regular income instead of retirement)
Application Process
Residency applications usually start at a Mexican consulate in the USA (or Canada). Prepare documents like financial statements, identification, and passport. The requirements vary by consulate as well as ease of setting up appointments for the process. I utilized the Orlando consulate (while I was still living in San Francisco), the process was very smooth and easy.
Enter Mexico and Complete the Process
With your visa in hand, it’s time to head to Mexico. But don’t get too comfortable yet—you’ll need to complete a few more steps to secure your residency card.
Enter Mexico Within 180 Days: Once your visa is issued, you have 180 days to enter Mexico. After arrival, you’ll have 30 days to start the residency card application process.
Visit the INM Office (Instituto Nacional de Migración): Head to the local immigration office (INM) in the city you plan to live. Here, you’ll submit additional documents, including your visa, passport, and application form.
Complete Biometrics and Finalize Application: At the INM office, they’ll take your fingerprints and photograph again. Once everything’s approved, they’ll issue your residency card, which you’ll need to pick up in person.
Renewal or Transition to Permanent Residency (for Temporary Residents)
If you start with a temporary residency, remember that it needs annual renewals. After your first year of temporary residency, you can renew for 1 year or up to 3 years. After four years of temporary residency, you can transition to permanent residency if you wish. The transition process is generally straightforward, requiring less documentation than your initial application.
COST OF LIVING
When I arrived in Mexico, I was amazed at how far my money stretched. Life here can be incredibly affordable, but it all depends on your lifestyle and location. Whether you’re looking for luxury or a budget-friendly existence, there’s a place for you. My overall living expenses in Mexico are roughly 55% less than in the U.S.
Typical Expenses
Moving Belongings: Moving personal items to Mexico can be costly, ranging from $5,000 to $10,000 USD. I opted to downsize significantly and made multiple trips by car, which saved me money and simplified the process. Downsizing also felt freeing—less clutter, more peace of mind! Plus all the things you need for a home is available in Mexico.
Housing: My one-bedroom apartment in Guadalajara costs $1,200 USD/month, which is nearer the top end of prices but I was looking in a specific neighborhood with the desired amenities. By contrast, luxury rentals in popular beach towns like Puerto Vallarta can range from $1,500 to $2,500 USD/month. Renting in less touristy areas, such as Querétaro or Mérida, can save you even more.
Utilities: Most of the year, my power bills rarely exceed $40 USD/month. A couple of months a year it warms up in Guadalajara and I run the a/c quite often which will double the power bill. In warmer regions, air conditioning can significantly increase costs. Paying bills at OXXO or other convenience stores is the norm here.
Internet and Phone: I use TotalPlay for fast and reliable internet at $35 USD/month, ideal for remote work. For phone service, AT&T’s unlimited plan ($85 USD monthly) covers the U.S., Latin America, and Canada, while I prepaid for a year of AT&T Mexico service for seamless local communication ($120 USD annually).
Groceries: Shopping at local mercados has been a game-changer. Fresh produce is affordable and flavorful, and I’ve discovered fruits like mamey and guanabana that I’d never tried before. Local restaurants offer some of the best, most authentic food at great prices.
Pro Tip: Dining at small, locally-owned restaurants not only saves money but also supports the community and gives you a taste of authentic Mexican cuisine. I love my local Mercados, so many food vendors where you can get three tacos and a drink for less than $10USD.
Water: In most areas of Mexico, it is advised to not drink the water. There are many water companies that will deliver garrafones (20 liters or approximately 5 gallons). I use 4 garrafones a month which runs $250pesos or $15 USD.
CHOOSING THE RIGHT LOCATION
Finding the perfect place to live in Mexico was one of the most exciting parts of my journey. Each city has its own personality, so take your time exploring.
Popular Cities and Regions
Mexico City: This bustling metropolis offers world-class museums, vibrant nightlife, and incredible food. Perfect for those who love big-city energy, though traffic and the fast pace can feel overwhelming. The main gayborhoods in the city are Zona Rosa, Condesa and Roma but close by neighborhoods are super gay-friendly such as Navarte & Napoles.
Guadalajara: My chosen home. It’s a perfect mix of modern amenities, historic charm, moderate weather and a thriving gay scene. Affordable and vibrant, it’s an excellent base for expats. The main gayborhoods are Colonia Americana and Centro Historico.
Puerto Vallarta: Known for its stunning beaches and welcoming gay community, this coastal town feels like a constant vacation. However, it’s more touristy and pricier than inland cities. Gay life centers around Zona Romantica but the city is super gay-friendly where ever you go. Check out the up & coming neighborhood or Versalles.
Tulum/Playa del Carmen: Ideal for eco-conscious and wellness-focused expats, with a laid-back vibe and breathtaking turquoise waters.
Other Options: Consider Mérida for its colonial charm and safety, Oaxaca for its cultural richness, or Querétaro for its modern amenities and family-friendly atmosphere.
My Tip: Rent before you buy! I spent my first few months exploring neighborhoods and getting a feel for different cities before settling down.
HEALTHCARE
Healthcare was a major concern for me before moving, but I’ve been pleasantly surprised by the quality and affordability here.
Key Points
Private Healthcare: A consultation at a private clinic cost me just $40 USD. The facilities were modern, clean, and the staff were friendly and bilingual.
Public Healthcare (IMSS): I am currently in the process of applying for IMSS and will provide an update on the steps and outcome.
Insurance: Combining private health insurance with IMSS provides excellent coverage for emergencies and routine care. Note that insurers in Mexico can deny coverage for pre-existing conditions.
For Prep & testing for Sexual Transmitted Infections: Most major cities have organizations that do testing & offer Prep for a very low price ($20 USD). The costs for non residents are more expensive but affordable. I utilize Checcos in Guadalajara which provides a fantastic service for the community.
Pro Tip: Major cities like Guadalajara and Mexico City have top-tier hospitals equipped with cutting-edge technology.
TRANSPORTATION OPTIONS
Getting around in Mexico is a diverse experience, offering everything from efficient public transportation to affordable ride-hailing services. Whether you’re commuting within a city, traveling between regions, or exploring off-the-beaten-path destinations, understanding your transportation options can make your transition smoother.
Public Transportation
Bike Share: My go-to transportation choice in Guadalajara is the MiBiCi bike share program. My annual membership is around $22. There are no additional charges if you keep each trip less than 30 minutes. Most major cities in Mexico have bike share programs, one of the biggest in Latin America is Ecobici in Mexico City.
Pro Tip: Auto drivers have the right of way in Mexico, so be cautious when biking.
City Buses: City buses are a popular and inexpensive way to get around urban areas. In cities like Mexico City, Guadalajara, and Monterrey, buses are frequent, but routes can be tricky for newcomers to navigate. Fares range from $0.30 to $0.60 USD per ride.
Pro Tip: Ask locals or consult Google Maps to understand routes. Always carry small change for bus fares.
Metro Systems: Mexico City has a world-class metro system with extensive coverage and fares as low as $0.25 USD per ride. Other cities, like Monterrey and Guadalajara, also have metro or light rail systems that are affordable and reliable.
Collectivos (Shared Vans): Shared vans, known as collectivos, are a popular option in smaller cities and rural areas. They run fixed routes and are cheaper than taxis. Look for signs on the windshield indicating their destination.
Ride-Hailing Apps:
Ride-hailing apps like Uber and Didi are widely available in major cities and tourist areas, offering affordable, safe, and convenient rides. Prices are generally lower than traditional taxis, and the apps allow you to track your ride and driver.
Pro Tip: Use Uber or Didi for late-night travel or when navigating unfamiliar areas.
Taxis:
Street Taxis: While taxis are plentiful, they often lack meters, so fares should be negotiated upfront. They are more common in smaller towns but are gradually being replaced by ride-hailing apps in cities.
Authorized Taxis at Airports: At airports, only authorized taxis are allowed to pick up passengers. These are generally safe but more expensive than ride-hailing apps. Look for the official taxi stands inside the airport terminal.
Rental Cars:
All the major US rental car brands have a presence in Mexico. If I am heading out of town to a nearby location, I do often opt for a rental car. Mexican law requires a valid drivers license from the US or Canada. When renting a car, you are also required to get the liability insurance for potential accidents.
LANGUAGE & COMMUNICATION
Learning Spanish in Mexico
Learning Spanish transforms your experience in Mexico, enhancing daily life, cultural immersion, and personal connections. While many Mexicans in tourist areas speak some English, knowing Spanish allows for smoother navigation of tasks like grocery shopping or asking for directions. It also shows respect and effort, fostering deeper relationships with locals and helping you feel more integrated in your new environment. I started with an online tutor, took a couple of classes locally in Guadalajara and now using a in-person tutor.
Steps to Learn Spanish Effectively
1. Start with Basic Resources: Apps like Duolingo, Babbel, and Anki flashcards are ideal for building foundational vocabulary. Transition to local Spanish classes, such as those offered by IMAC in Guadalajara or Instituto de Español de Puerto Vallarta, for structured learning and networking with other expats.
2. Practice Daily with Locals: Use simple phrases in everyday interactions, such as greeting neighbors or ordering at a market. Focus on practical vocabulary like “¿Cuánto cuesta?” (How much does it cost?) and immerse yourself in Spanish media—watch Mexican TV, listen to podcasts, and read local headlines to improve your listening and reading skills.
Overcoming Common Challenges
Fear of mistakes is natural, but Mexicans are patient and supportive of your efforts. Laughing at errors can even serve as an icebreaker. Regional slang (e.g., chido for “cool” or ¿Qué onda? for “What’s up?”) and the fast pace of conversation may feel daunting. Politely ask locals to slow down or explain unfamiliar phrases. Active listening and consistent practice will build confidence over time.
Pro Tips for Success
Set realistic goals, such as learning 5–10 new words daily, and celebrate small wins like completing your first full conversation. Join conversation groups or language exchanges to practice regularly and avoid over-relying on English. Immersion and consistency are key—challenge yourself to use Spanish as much as possible, and remember that every effort contributes to your progress.
CULTURAL ADAPTION: EMBRACING LIFE IN MEXICO
Adapting to Mexican culture has been one of the most rewarding aspects of my move. The slower pace of life, deep-rooted traditions, and strong sense of community have taught me invaluable lessons about connection, patience, and perspective. Understanding and respecting cultural norms is essential to integrating into society and enjoying the richness of Mexican life.
Key Cultural Norms to Note
Family-Oriented Society: Family is at the Heart of Everything. In Mexico, family ties are deeply valued and often take precedence over work or social commitments. Large family gatherings are common, often featuring laughter, music, and incredible homemade food.
Being Invited to Family Events: If you’re invited to a family gathering, accept the invitation! It’s a sign of trust and inclusion. These events may range from birthday parties to casual Sunday meals, often with a festive atmosphere.
Role of Extended Family: It’s not uncommon for multiple generations to live under one roof or within close proximity. When you meet a Mexican man, it is highly likely they live at home with their family. Elders are highly respected and often play an integral role in decision-making.
Pro Tip: When attending a family gathering, it’s customary to greet everyone individually with a handshake, hug, or kiss on the cheek, depending on the level of familiarity.
“Mexican Time”
Flexibility Over Punctuality: The concept of “Mexican time” reflects a more relaxed approach to punctuality. Plans often start later than scheduled, whether it’s a social event or a casual meeting.
Adapting to the Pace: This cultural trait taught me to be more flexible and patient. It’s not about disrespect but rather about prioritizing relationships and enjoying the moment. This can be frustrating at times but I have learned that it is easier to adapt than try to get people to be punctual.
How to Approach It:
For social events, expect a buffer of 30 minutes to an hour. Arriving too early might even catch your host unprepared!
For professional settings, punctuality is more expected, but slight delays are still common.
Pro Tip: If timing is critical, clarify expectations by saying something like “¿Es a las 7 en punto?” (Is it at 7 sharp?).
Social Customs and Politeness
Everyday Politeness: Simple courtesies like saying “gracias” (thank you), “por favor” (please), and “buenos días” (good morning) are highly valued. These small gestures create a positive impression and help build connections.
Greetings: A handshake is common for first meetings, while a kiss on the cheek is customary for closer friends or family. Men may pat each other on the back as part of a handshake. When entering a room, it’s polite to greet everyone individually rather than just offering a general hello.
Goodbyes: Similar to greetings, farewells are often done individually. A quick wave is considered impersonal.
Pro Tip: Avoid skipping greetings and goodbyes—it’s seen as rude or dismissive.
The Importance of Hospitality
Generosity as a Norm: Mexicans are famously hospitable. If you visit someone’s home, you’ll often be offered food, drinks, or even gifts. Declining can sometimes be perceived as impolite, so it’s better to accept with gratitude, even if it’s something small.
Hosting Etiquette: When hosting, it’s important to go the extra mile to ensure guests feel welcomed. Food and drinks should be plentiful, and attention to detail is appreciated.
Pro Tip: If invited to someone’s home, bring a small gift like flowers, wine, or dessert. It’s a thoughtful gesture that shows appreciation.
SAFETY & SECURITY IN MEXICO
Safety was a significant concern before I moved, especially as a member of the gay community. However, I’ve found that with proper precautions and awareness, Mexico can be a welcoming and safe place for expats, including gay individuals. Here’s an expanded guide to staying safe in Mexico, with specific tips for gay expats.
Understanding Safety in Mexico: Facts and Statistics
Crime Trends:
Crime rates in Mexico vary widely by region. Some states face challenges related to organized crime, while others—like Yucatán—rank among the safest areas in Latin America. For example, Mérida, the capital of Yucatán, has a homicide rate comparable to that of European countries like Switzerland.
Tourist destinations such as Puerto Vallarta, Mexico City, and Tulum are relatively safe and take measures to protect visitors due to their economic importance.
One recent statistic (from World Population Review) ranking countries based on safety, Mexico ranks five places farther down the list than the United States.
LGBTQ+ Rights and Safety:
Mexico is increasingly gay-friendly, with same-sex marriage legal in all 32 states as of 2022. Many major cities, such as Mexico City and Guadalajara, have vibrant gay communities and pride events.
Despite progress, acceptance varies by region. Urban areas and tourist hubs tend to be more open-minded, while smaller towns or rural regions may hold more conservative attitudes.
Tips for Staying Safe in Mexico
While safety concerns exist, taking precautions can help you feel confident and secure. Below are general safety tips along with advice tailored for gay individuals.
General Safety Tips
Choose Neighborhoods Wisely:
Neighborhood safety varies widely. For example, I live in Colonia Americana in Guadalajara, a trendy and gay-friendly area known for its vibrant atmosphere and relative safety.
Research neighborhoods using online forums, expat groups, and local recommendations before committing to housing.
Stay Aware of Your Surroundings:
Avoid displaying valuables like expensive jewelry or electronics, especially in crowded areas.
Use ride-hailing apps like Uber or Didi for transportation, particularly at night.
Be Cautious in Public Spaces: Avoid walking alone in unfamiliar areas, especially after dark. Stick to well-lit, busy streets and use reliable transportation when needed.
Blend In Where Possible: Dress modestly and avoid drawing unnecessary attention to yourself, especially in conservative areas. This advice applies to anyone, regardless of sexual orientation.
Gay Safety Tips
Stick to Gay-Friendly Areas:
Cities like Puerto Vallarta, Mexico City, and Guadalajara are known for their thriving gay scenes and are generally safe for gay individuals. In these cities, you’ll find gay-friendly bars, clubs, and community spaces.
Be Mindful of Displays of Affection: Public displays of affection (PDAs) can be more accepted in urban areas, but in conservative regions, they might draw unwanted attention. Gauge the environment and act accordingly.
Research Venues in Advance: Before visiting bars, clubs, or other social venues, check reviews and recommendations to ensure they are gay-friendly. Apps like Grindr or Google Maps often have user reviews that highlight safe and welcoming establishments.
Travel with Trusted Friends: If you’re new to a city or attending an event, go with someone you trust. Being part of a group can increase safety in unfamiliar areas.
Know Your Rights: Mexico’s legal protections for LGBTQ+ individuals include anti-discrimination laws. However, enforcement can vary. If you encounter discrimination, remain calm and seek help from local authorities or LGBTQ+ organizations.
Resources for LGBTQ+ Expats: Look for LGBTQ+ support groups or advocacy organizations in your area. For example, Colectivo Vallarta and Diversidad Jalisco support LGBTQ+ rights in Puerto Vallarta and Guadalajara, respectively.
KEY THINGS TO DO WHEN YOU ARRIVE
Finish up your residency process at the Insituto National de Migracion (INM) where you will receive your residency card. You will need to make an appointment in advance. They will need proof of address (usually a utility bill will suffice).
Request an RFC (Mexican tax identification number) at your local SAT office. You will need an RFC to open a bank account, buy a car and apply for IMSS. You will need an appointment in advance.
Open a Mexican Bank account. You will need your CURP, RFC, Mexican Telephone number and address.
Rent an apartment: check Facebook marketplace or Inmuebles24.com for listings in your location. Also walk around your desired neighborhood to see if there are any for rent signs.
FAQS
What visa do I need to live in Mexico long-term?
To live in Mexico long-term, you’ll need a Temporary Resident Visa (good for up to 4 years) or a Permanent Resident Visa. The right one for you depends on factors like income, length of stay, and personal circumstances. Begin the process at a Mexican consulate in your home country.
How much money do I need to move to Mexico?
The cost varies based on your lifestyle and location. Budget at least $5,000–$10,000 USD for moving expenses, such as visa fees, housing deposits, and transportation. Monthly living expenses can range from $2,500 to $5,000 USD, depending on your lifestyle and city.
Is it safe to live in Mexico?
Yes, many areas in Mexico are safe. Research neighborhoods carefully, avoid risky areas, and use common sense (e.g., avoid walking alone at night and don’t flash valuables). Cities like Guadalajara, Mérida, and parts of Mexico City are popular with expats for their safety and amenities.
Can I work remotely for a U.S. company while living in Mexico?
Yes, many expats work remotely for U.S. companies while living in Mexico. Check the tax implications for both the U.S. and Mexico. Consulting a tax professional is highly recommended.
How can I open a bank account in Mexico?
To open a bank account in Mexico, you’ll need a Temporary or Permanent Resident Visa, proof of residency, an RFC (tax ID), and a Mexican phone number. Popular banks for expats include Santander, BBVA, and Banorte.
Do I need to speak Spanish to live in Mexico?
While it’s possible to get by in tourist areas with limited Spanish, learning the language greatly enhances your experience. Start with basic phrases and build your skills through apps, classes, and daily practice.
What is healthcare like in Mexico?
Mexico offers high-quality and affordable healthcare. Private clinics and hospitals are modern and accessible, while the public IMSS system provides basic care for residents. Many expats combine private health insurance with IMSS for comprehensive coverage.
How do I find housing in Mexico?
Start with short-term rentals through Airbnb or similar platforms while exploring neighborhoods. Long-term rentals can be found on Facebook groups, local real estate websites, or by walking around and noting rental signs. Negotiating rent is common and can often lower costs.
Can I bring my pet to Mexico?
Yes, you can bring your pet to Mexico, but you’ll need to comply with Mexican import regulations. The rules have changed recently, what you will need to bring your pet to Mexico:
Minimum age: The dog must be at least six months old.
Microchip: An ISO-compatible microchip.
CDC Form: Complete it two to ten days before the trip.
Rabies vaccination.
Health certificate including Screw worm examination.
What’s the best way to meet people and build a community?
Join expat Facebook groups, attend local events like farmers’ markets and art fairs, or volunteer with charities to meet like-minded people. Taking language classes is also a great way to connect with locals and other expats.
How to a get a Mexican Drivers License
To obtain a driver’s license in Mexico as a resident, you’ll need to visit your local Secretaría de Movilidad y Transporte (SEMOVI) or equivalent office with required documents, including your Temporary or Permanent Resident Visa, CURP, proof of address, and valid ID. Some states may also require your RFC or foreign driver’s license. You’ll typically need to pass a vision test, a written exam on traffic laws, and a practical driving test unless your foreign license can be exchanged. Costs range from $20–$50 USD depending on the state and license validity (1–5 years). The process is usually completed in one day, and having a Mexican license ensures compliance with local laws as a resident.
FINAL THOUGHTS
Moving to Mexico has been one of the most enriching experiences of my life. While challenges like navigating bureaucracy or adapting to cultural differences exist, they’re far outweighed by the warmth of the people, rich culture, and incredible quality of life.
Whether you’re sipping coffee in a sunlit plaza, exploring vibrant mercados, or hiking through lush jungles, Mexico offers endless opportunities for adventure and personal growth. With preparation and an open mind, you’ll soon see why so many expats call this beautiful country home.
What excites you most about moving to Mexico? Let me know in the comments, or reach out with your questions—I’m here to help!
About the Author
Tim is a seasoned travel writer and the creator of Out in Mexico, a dedicated resource for gay travelers exploring Mexico’s vibrant destinations. After relocating to Guadalajara, he has spent years immersing himself in Mexico’s gay culture, from the iconic beaches of Puerto Vallarta to the nightlife of Mexico City.
With firsthand experience in Mexico’s gay scene, Tim has personally visited the bars, hotels, and events featured in this guide. His insights have helped gay travelers plan unforgettable trips while ensuring they feel safe, welcomed, and informed.
When he’s not writing, you’ll find him sipping a mezcal cocktail at a bar in Guadalajara or travel to a new exciting destination in Mexico.
According to a press release dated Jan. 30 and time-stamped 7:38 p.m., the city of Dallas has officially caved to the rainbow-hating homophobes in Texas government, and Oak Lawn’s privately-funded rainbow crosswalks — and any other nonstandard crosswalk designs in the city — will be removed within the next 90 days.
The press release says: “The City of Dallas has notified the Texas Department of Transportation that it will comply with TxDOT’s directive requiring removal or correction of non-compliant pavement markings.”
The TxDOT “request” (aka Greg Abbott’s homophobic demand in order to kowtow to Trump, just like he did with the mid-decade congressional redistricting and by turning over Texas voter rolls to the feds) covers 30 decorative crosswalks citywide, the press release said.
“In a letter signed by Dallas City Manager Kimberly Bizor Tolbert, the city notified the director of the TxDOT Traffic Safety Division that it will comply with the order within 90 days,” the press release continues, quoting Tolbert as saying that “The city appreciates TxDOT’s partnership in sustaining safe multimodal transportation in Dallas. The city will work with affected communities on ways to recognize their neighborhoods.”
The press release concludes: “TxDOT rejected the city’s appeal of the directive to remove pavement markings stating the intersections identified did not meet current Texas Manual on Uniform Traffic Control Devices requirements. TxDOT emphasized that all treatments must comply with the TMUTCD, the Secretary of Transportation’s Safe Road Initiative, and the governor’s directive issued Oct. 8, 2025, which prioritize uniformity and predictability in traffic control devices statewide.”
Considering that numerous studies and incidental data have proven that creative crosswalk designs actually enhance safety, the obvious truth is that Abbott and his minions don’t actually give a fat rat’s ass about safety; they just want to try and suppress the LGBTQ+ community and, at the same time, lick Trump’s boots.
Knowing our LGBTQ+/Oak Lawn community, however, we feel sure that while the homophobes may be winning this battle in the Rainbow War, the fight continues. We expect to see even more rainbows waving proudly across Oak Lawn soon.
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