Angelina Jolie appears ready to close the chapter on her life in the United States, with her final obstacle to leaving set to be resolved in a few months.
The Eternals star has been waiting for twins Knox and Vivienne to turn 18 in July before making a long-considered move abroad, telling reporters at the San Sebastian Film Festival that while she still “loves” America, she no longer “recognize[s]” it the way she once did.
The comment underscored a shift that has been years in the making for the Academy Award winner, who has increasingly framed the U.S. as just one stop in a much more global life.
Jolie, 50, has been open about that mindset across multiple interviews. Speaking to The Hollywood Reporter in 2024, she described Los Angeles less as a permanent home and more as a practical base for raising her six children. Calling her multi-million dollar home “a place where I raise my children,” she said, before adding that the “humanity that I found across the world is not what I grew up with here.”
That global pull has long competed with the realities of her custody arrangement with ex-husband Brad Pitt. The former couple shares six children—Maddox, 24; Pax, 22; Zahara, 21; Shiloh, 19; and twins Knox and Vivienne, who turn 18 this summer. Until now, Jolie’s ability to relocate has been constrained by the need to remain close to Pitt, 61.
A source close to the star told People that the restriction is finally lifting. The insider said Jolie “never wanted to live in L.A. full-time” and has been quietly preparing for a move once her youngest children reached adulthood. With that milestone approaching, she is now reportedly taking concrete steps—including preparing to sell her Los Feliz estate.
Jolie purchased the $24.5 million home in 2017, a year after filing for divorce from Pitt. At the time, she told Page Six the decision was driven by proximity: she “wanted it to be close to their dad,” who lived just minutes away.
The property—featuring six bedrooms and 10 bathrooms—served as a central base during years of custody negotiations and legal disputes.
Now, that chapter appears to be ending. In a September 2025 interview with Variety, Jolie emphasized that she has “always lived internationally,” pointing to her network of family and friends across the globe.
If there is a frontrunner for her next home, it is Cambodia. Jolie has repeatedly described the country as deeply personal to her, dating back to her time filming 2001’s Lara Croft: Tomb Raider film. It was there that Jolie adopted her eldest son, Maddox, in 2002 and has maintained close ties ever since.
Jolie has repeatedly referenced Cambodia as a place that feels like home “in my heart.”The star said she felt compelled to produce her 2017 film They Killed My Father about the Cambodian genocide after coming to fall “in love with its people,” describing “becoming a part of a Cambodian family” as life-changing.
n a separate interview with People, the actress dove deeper into her connection with Cambodia. Revealing that she and her son Maddox frequently travel back and forth, sometimes spending months there at a time—a reflection of the family’s enduring connection to the country.
The Daily Beast has reached out to Jolie’s team for comment.
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Hola, future LGBTQ+ immigrant! When I first considered moving to Mexico, I was excited but also nervous about the unknowns. Having made the leap, I’ve discovered a country full of beauty, surprises, and opportunities for personal growth. Whether you’re seeking adventure, a lower cost of living, or a fresh start, Mexico has something for everyone. However, a smooth transition requires careful planning.
In this guide, I’ll share the lessons I’ve learned—from finding a home to navigating daily life—so you can start your journey with confidence.
VISA PROCESS – HOW TO LEGALLY LIVE IN MEXICO
To live in Mexico long-term, expats typically need a residency visa. There are many people who travel back and forth from the USA and leverage the “180 days” when entering Mexico. The downside to this approach is that it is up to the officer stamping passports at the airport and you can easily get less than 180 days.
Temporary Resident Visa
Ideal for those looking to stay in Mexico for up to four years, this visa requires proof of financial solvency.
Permanent Resident Visa
This visa is for individuals who plan to stay in Mexico indefinitely and provides nearly the same rights as Mexican citizens, except for voting.
Work Visa
If you plan to work for a Mexican employer, you’ll need a work visa, which typically requires a job offer from a Mexican company. Many LGBTQ+ expats work remotely for employers abroad, which can be done under temporary or permanent residency.
Financial Requirements (estimates for 2026)
Residency visas require proof of income and/or savings. Requirements vary and can change due to exchange rates, so it’s best to check with the Mexican consulate you will apply. Below are the estimates for 2026. These vary by consulate and currency fluctuations impact them. So take these as directional.
Temporary Residency: Approximately $74,500 – $87,599 USD/$98,000 – $112,500 CDN in Savings (monthly ending balance for the last 12 months) or $4,500-$5,250 USD/$5,800-$6,750 CDN a month in retirement or income
Permanent Residency: Approximately $280,000- $350,000 USD/$350,000-$450,000 CDN in Savings (monthly ending balance for the last 12 month) or $7,200-$8,750 USD/$9,800 – $11,250 CDN a month in retirement income (there may be some consulates that consider regular income instead of retirement)
Application Process
Residency applications usually start at a Mexican consulate in the USA (or Canada). Prepare documents like financial statements, identification, and passport. The requirements vary by consulate as well as ease of setting up appointments for the process. I utilized the Orlando consulate (while I was still living in San Francisco), the process was very smooth and easy.
Enter Mexico and Complete the Process
With your visa in hand, it’s time to head to Mexico. But don’t get too comfortable yet—you’ll need to complete a few more steps to secure your residency card.
Enter Mexico Within 180 Days: Once your visa is issued, you have 180 days to enter Mexico. After arrival, you’ll have 30 days to start the residency card application process.
Visit the INM Office (Instituto Nacional de Migración): Head to the local immigration office (INM) in the city you plan to live. Here, you’ll submit additional documents, including your visa, passport, and application form.
Complete Biometrics and Finalize Application: At the INM office, they’ll take your fingerprints and photograph again. Once everything’s approved, they’ll issue your residency card, which you’ll need to pick up in person.
Renewal or Transition to Permanent Residency (for Temporary Residents)
If you start with a temporary residency, remember that it needs annual renewals. After your first year of temporary residency, you can renew for 1 year or up to 3 years. After four years of temporary residency, you can transition to permanent residency if you wish. The transition process is generally straightforward, requiring less documentation than your initial application.
COST OF LIVING
When I arrived in Mexico, I was amazed at how far my money stretched. Life here can be incredibly affordable, but it all depends on your lifestyle and location. Whether you’re looking for luxury or a budget-friendly existence, there’s a place for you. My overall living expenses in Mexico are roughly 55% less than in the U.S.
Typical Expenses
Moving Belongings: Moving personal items to Mexico can be costly, ranging from $5,000 to $10,000 USD. I opted to downsize significantly and made multiple trips by car, which saved me money and simplified the process. Downsizing also felt freeing—less clutter, more peace of mind! Plus all the things you need for a home is available in Mexico.
Housing: My one-bedroom apartment in Guadalajara costs $1,200 USD/month, which is nearer the top end of prices but I was looking in a specific neighborhood with the desired amenities. By contrast, luxury rentals in popular beach towns like Puerto Vallarta can range from $1,500 to $2,500 USD/month. Renting in less touristy areas, such as Querétaro or Mérida, can save you even more.
Utilities: Most of the year, my power bills rarely exceed $40 USD/month. A couple of months a year it warms up in Guadalajara and I run the a/c quite often which will double the power bill. In warmer regions, air conditioning can significantly increase costs. Paying bills at OXXO or other convenience stores is the norm here.
Internet and Phone: I use TotalPlay for fast and reliable internet at $35 USD/month, ideal for remote work. For phone service, AT&T’s unlimited plan ($85 USD monthly) covers the U.S., Latin America, and Canada, while I prepaid for a year of AT&T Mexico service for seamless local communication ($120 USD annually).
Groceries: Shopping at local mercados has been a game-changer. Fresh produce is affordable and flavorful, and I’ve discovered fruits like mamey and guanabana that I’d never tried before. Local restaurants offer some of the best, most authentic food at great prices.
Pro Tip: Dining at small, locally-owned restaurants not only saves money but also supports the community and gives you a taste of authentic Mexican cuisine. I love my local Mercados, so many food vendors where you can get three tacos and a drink for less than $10USD.
Water: In most areas of Mexico, it is advised to not drink the water. There are many water companies that will deliver garrafones (20 liters or approximately 5 gallons). I use 4 garrafones a month which runs $250pesos or $15 USD.
CHOOSING THE RIGHT LOCATION
Finding the perfect place to live in Mexico was one of the most exciting parts of my journey. Each city has its own personality, so take your time exploring.
Popular Cities and Regions
Mexico City: This bustling metropolis offers world-class museums, vibrant nightlife, and incredible food. Perfect for those who love big-city energy, though traffic and the fast pace can feel overwhelming. The main gayborhoods in the city are Zona Rosa, Condesa and Roma but close by neighborhoods are super gay-friendly such as Navarte & Napoles.
Guadalajara: My chosen home. It’s a perfect mix of modern amenities, historic charm, moderate weather and a thriving gay scene. Affordable and vibrant, it’s an excellent base for expats. The main gayborhoods are Colonia Americana and Centro Historico.
Puerto Vallarta: Known for its stunning beaches and welcoming gay community, this coastal town feels like a constant vacation. However, it’s more touristy and pricier than inland cities. Gay life centers around Zona Romantica but the city is super gay-friendly where ever you go. Check out the up & coming neighborhood or Versalles.
Tulum/Playa del Carmen: Ideal for eco-conscious and wellness-focused expats, with a laid-back vibe and breathtaking turquoise waters.
Other Options: Consider Mérida for its colonial charm and safety, Oaxaca for its cultural richness, or Querétaro for its modern amenities and family-friendly atmosphere.
My Tip: Rent before you buy! I spent my first few months exploring neighborhoods and getting a feel for different cities before settling down.
HEALTHCARE
Healthcare was a major concern for me before moving, but I’ve been pleasantly surprised by the quality and affordability here.
Key Points
Private Healthcare: A consultation at a private clinic cost me just $40 USD. The facilities were modern, clean, and the staff were friendly and bilingual.
Public Healthcare (IMSS): I am currently in the process of applying for IMSS and will provide an update on the steps and outcome.
Insurance: Combining private health insurance with IMSS provides excellent coverage for emergencies and routine care. Note that insurers in Mexico can deny coverage for pre-existing conditions.
For Prep & testing for Sexual Transmitted Infections: Most major cities have organizations that do testing & offer Prep for a very low price ($20 USD). The costs for non residents are more expensive but affordable. I utilize Checcos in Guadalajara which provides a fantastic service for the community.
Pro Tip: Major cities like Guadalajara and Mexico City have top-tier hospitals equipped with cutting-edge technology.
TRANSPORTATION OPTIONS
Getting around in Mexico is a diverse experience, offering everything from efficient public transportation to affordable ride-hailing services. Whether you’re commuting within a city, traveling between regions, or exploring off-the-beaten-path destinations, understanding your transportation options can make your transition smoother.
Public Transportation
Bike Share: My go-to transportation choice in Guadalajara is the MiBiCi bike share program. My annual membership is around $22. There are no additional charges if you keep each trip less than 30 minutes. Most major cities in Mexico have bike share programs, one of the biggest in Latin America is Ecobici in Mexico City.
Pro Tip: Auto drivers have the right of way in Mexico, so be cautious when biking.
City Buses: City buses are a popular and inexpensive way to get around urban areas. In cities like Mexico City, Guadalajara, and Monterrey, buses are frequent, but routes can be tricky for newcomers to navigate. Fares range from $0.30 to $0.60 USD per ride.
Pro Tip: Ask locals or consult Google Maps to understand routes. Always carry small change for bus fares.
Metro Systems: Mexico City has a world-class metro system with extensive coverage and fares as low as $0.25 USD per ride. Other cities, like Monterrey and Guadalajara, also have metro or light rail systems that are affordable and reliable.
Collectivos (Shared Vans): Shared vans, known as collectivos, are a popular option in smaller cities and rural areas. They run fixed routes and are cheaper than taxis. Look for signs on the windshield indicating their destination.
Ride-Hailing Apps:
Ride-hailing apps like Uber and Didi are widely available in major cities and tourist areas, offering affordable, safe, and convenient rides. Prices are generally lower than traditional taxis, and the apps allow you to track your ride and driver.
Pro Tip: Use Uber or Didi for late-night travel or when navigating unfamiliar areas.
Taxis:
Street Taxis: While taxis are plentiful, they often lack meters, so fares should be negotiated upfront. They are more common in smaller towns but are gradually being replaced by ride-hailing apps in cities.
Authorized Taxis at Airports: At airports, only authorized taxis are allowed to pick up passengers. These are generally safe but more expensive than ride-hailing apps. Look for the official taxi stands inside the airport terminal.
Rental Cars:
All the major US rental car brands have a presence in Mexico. If I am heading out of town to a nearby location, I do often opt for a rental car. Mexican law requires a valid drivers license from the US or Canada. When renting a car, you are also required to get the liability insurance for potential accidents.
LANGUAGE & COMMUNICATION
Learning Spanish in Mexico
Learning Spanish transforms your experience in Mexico, enhancing daily life, cultural immersion, and personal connections. While many Mexicans in tourist areas speak some English, knowing Spanish allows for smoother navigation of tasks like grocery shopping or asking for directions. It also shows respect and effort, fostering deeper relationships with locals and helping you feel more integrated in your new environment. I started with an online tutor, took a couple of classes locally in Guadalajara and now using a in-person tutor.
Steps to Learn Spanish Effectively
1. Start with Basic Resources: Apps like Duolingo, Babbel, and Anki flashcards are ideal for building foundational vocabulary. Transition to local Spanish classes, such as those offered by IMAC in Guadalajara or Instituto de Español de Puerto Vallarta, for structured learning and networking with other expats.
2. Practice Daily with Locals: Use simple phrases in everyday interactions, such as greeting neighbors or ordering at a market. Focus on practical vocabulary like “¿Cuánto cuesta?” (How much does it cost?) and immerse yourself in Spanish media—watch Mexican TV, listen to podcasts, and read local headlines to improve your listening and reading skills.
Overcoming Common Challenges
Fear of mistakes is natural, but Mexicans are patient and supportive of your efforts. Laughing at errors can even serve as an icebreaker. Regional slang (e.g., chido for “cool” or ¿Qué onda? for “What’s up?”) and the fast pace of conversation may feel daunting. Politely ask locals to slow down or explain unfamiliar phrases. Active listening and consistent practice will build confidence over time.
Pro Tips for Success
Set realistic goals, such as learning 5–10 new words daily, and celebrate small wins like completing your first full conversation. Join conversation groups or language exchanges to practice regularly and avoid over-relying on English. Immersion and consistency are key—challenge yourself to use Spanish as much as possible, and remember that every effort contributes to your progress.
CULTURAL ADAPTION: EMBRACING LIFE IN MEXICO
Adapting to Mexican culture has been one of the most rewarding aspects of my move. The slower pace of life, deep-rooted traditions, and strong sense of community have taught me invaluable lessons about connection, patience, and perspective. Understanding and respecting cultural norms is essential to integrating into society and enjoying the richness of Mexican life.
Key Cultural Norms to Note
Family-Oriented Society: Family is at the Heart of Everything. In Mexico, family ties are deeply valued and often take precedence over work or social commitments. Large family gatherings are common, often featuring laughter, music, and incredible homemade food.
Being Invited to Family Events: If you’re invited to a family gathering, accept the invitation! It’s a sign of trust and inclusion. These events may range from birthday parties to casual Sunday meals, often with a festive atmosphere.
Role of Extended Family: It’s not uncommon for multiple generations to live under one roof or within close proximity. When you meet a Mexican man, it is highly likely they live at home with their family. Elders are highly respected and often play an integral role in decision-making.
Pro Tip: When attending a family gathering, it’s customary to greet everyone individually with a handshake, hug, or kiss on the cheek, depending on the level of familiarity.
“Mexican Time”
Flexibility Over Punctuality: The concept of “Mexican time” reflects a more relaxed approach to punctuality. Plans often start later than scheduled, whether it’s a social event or a casual meeting.
Adapting to the Pace: This cultural trait taught me to be more flexible and patient. It’s not about disrespect but rather about prioritizing relationships and enjoying the moment. This can be frustrating at times but I have learned that it is easier to adapt than try to get people to be punctual.
How to Approach It:
For social events, expect a buffer of 30 minutes to an hour. Arriving too early might even catch your host unprepared!
For professional settings, punctuality is more expected, but slight delays are still common.
Pro Tip: If timing is critical, clarify expectations by saying something like “¿Es a las 7 en punto?” (Is it at 7 sharp?).
Social Customs and Politeness
Everyday Politeness: Simple courtesies like saying “gracias” (thank you), “por favor” (please), and “buenos días” (good morning) are highly valued. These small gestures create a positive impression and help build connections.
Greetings: A handshake is common for first meetings, while a kiss on the cheek is customary for closer friends or family. Men may pat each other on the back as part of a handshake. When entering a room, it’s polite to greet everyone individually rather than just offering a general hello.
Goodbyes: Similar to greetings, farewells are often done individually. A quick wave is considered impersonal.
Pro Tip: Avoid skipping greetings and goodbyes—it’s seen as rude or dismissive.
The Importance of Hospitality
Generosity as a Norm: Mexicans are famously hospitable. If you visit someone’s home, you’ll often be offered food, drinks, or even gifts. Declining can sometimes be perceived as impolite, so it’s better to accept with gratitude, even if it’s something small.
Hosting Etiquette: When hosting, it’s important to go the extra mile to ensure guests feel welcomed. Food and drinks should be plentiful, and attention to detail is appreciated.
Pro Tip: If invited to someone’s home, bring a small gift like flowers, wine, or dessert. It’s a thoughtful gesture that shows appreciation.
SAFETY & SECURITY IN MEXICO
Safety was a significant concern before I moved, especially as a member of the gay community. However, I’ve found that with proper precautions and awareness, Mexico can be a welcoming and safe place for expats, including gay individuals. Here’s an expanded guide to staying safe in Mexico, with specific tips for gay expats.
Understanding Safety in Mexico: Facts and Statistics
Crime Trends:
Crime rates in Mexico vary widely by region. Some states face challenges related to organized crime, while others—like Yucatán—rank among the safest areas in Latin America. For example, Mérida, the capital of Yucatán, has a homicide rate comparable to that of European countries like Switzerland.
Tourist destinations such as Puerto Vallarta, Mexico City, and Tulum are relatively safe and take measures to protect visitors due to their economic importance.
One recent statistic (from World Population Review) ranking countries based on safety, Mexico ranks five places farther down the list than the United States.
LGBTQ+ Rights and Safety:
Mexico is increasingly gay-friendly, with same-sex marriage legal in all 32 states as of 2022. Many major cities, such as Mexico City and Guadalajara, have vibrant gay communities and pride events.
Despite progress, acceptance varies by region. Urban areas and tourist hubs tend to be more open-minded, while smaller towns or rural regions may hold more conservative attitudes.
Tips for Staying Safe in Mexico
While safety concerns exist, taking precautions can help you feel confident and secure. Below are general safety tips along with advice tailored for gay individuals.
General Safety Tips
Choose Neighborhoods Wisely:
Neighborhood safety varies widely. For example, I live in Colonia Americana in Guadalajara, a trendy and gay-friendly area known for its vibrant atmosphere and relative safety.
Research neighborhoods using online forums, expat groups, and local recommendations before committing to housing.
Stay Aware of Your Surroundings:
Avoid displaying valuables like expensive jewelry or electronics, especially in crowded areas.
Use ride-hailing apps like Uber or Didi for transportation, particularly at night.
Be Cautious in Public Spaces: Avoid walking alone in unfamiliar areas, especially after dark. Stick to well-lit, busy streets and use reliable transportation when needed.
Blend In Where Possible: Dress modestly and avoid drawing unnecessary attention to yourself, especially in conservative areas. This advice applies to anyone, regardless of sexual orientation.
Gay Safety Tips
Stick to Gay-Friendly Areas:
Cities like Puerto Vallarta, Mexico City, and Guadalajara are known for their thriving gay scenes and are generally safe for gay individuals. In these cities, you’ll find gay-friendly bars, clubs, and community spaces.
Be Mindful of Displays of Affection: Public displays of affection (PDAs) can be more accepted in urban areas, but in conservative regions, they might draw unwanted attention. Gauge the environment and act accordingly.
Research Venues in Advance: Before visiting bars, clubs, or other social venues, check reviews and recommendations to ensure they are gay-friendly. Apps like Grindr or Google Maps often have user reviews that highlight safe and welcoming establishments.
Travel with Trusted Friends: If you’re new to a city or attending an event, go with someone you trust. Being part of a group can increase safety in unfamiliar areas.
Know Your Rights: Mexico’s legal protections for LGBTQ+ individuals include anti-discrimination laws. However, enforcement can vary. If you encounter discrimination, remain calm and seek help from local authorities or LGBTQ+ organizations.
Resources for LGBTQ+ Expats: Look for LGBTQ+ support groups or advocacy organizations in your area. For example, Colectivo Vallarta and Diversidad Jalisco support LGBTQ+ rights in Puerto Vallarta and Guadalajara, respectively.
KEY THINGS TO DO WHEN YOU ARRIVE
Finish up your residency process at the Insituto National de Migracion (INM) where you will receive your residency card. You will need to make an appointment in advance. They will need proof of address (usually a utility bill will suffice).
Request an RFC (Mexican tax identification number) at your local SAT office. You will need an RFC to open a bank account, buy a car and apply for IMSS. You will need an appointment in advance.
Open a Mexican Bank account. You will need your CURP, RFC, Mexican Telephone number and address.
Rent an apartment: check Facebook marketplace or Inmuebles24.com for listings in your location. Also walk around your desired neighborhood to see if there are any for rent signs.
FAQS
What visa do I need to live in Mexico long-term?
To live in Mexico long-term, you’ll need a Temporary Resident Visa (good for up to 4 years) or a Permanent Resident Visa. The right one for you depends on factors like income, length of stay, and personal circumstances. Begin the process at a Mexican consulate in your home country.
How much money do I need to move to Mexico?
The cost varies based on your lifestyle and location. Budget at least $5,000–$10,000 USD for moving expenses, such as visa fees, housing deposits, and transportation. Monthly living expenses can range from $2,500 to $5,000 USD, depending on your lifestyle and city.
Is it safe to live in Mexico?
Yes, many areas in Mexico are safe. Research neighborhoods carefully, avoid risky areas, and use common sense (e.g., avoid walking alone at night and don’t flash valuables). Cities like Guadalajara, Mérida, and parts of Mexico City are popular with expats for their safety and amenities.
Can I work remotely for a U.S. company while living in Mexico?
Yes, many expats work remotely for U.S. companies while living in Mexico. Check the tax implications for both the U.S. and Mexico. Consulting a tax professional is highly recommended.
How can I open a bank account in Mexico?
To open a bank account in Mexico, you’ll need a Temporary or Permanent Resident Visa, proof of residency, an RFC (tax ID), and a Mexican phone number. Popular banks for expats include Santander, BBVA, and Banorte.
Do I need to speak Spanish to live in Mexico?
While it’s possible to get by in tourist areas with limited Spanish, learning the language greatly enhances your experience. Start with basic phrases and build your skills through apps, classes, and daily practice.
What is healthcare like in Mexico?
Mexico offers high-quality and affordable healthcare. Private clinics and hospitals are modern and accessible, while the public IMSS system provides basic care for residents. Many expats combine private health insurance with IMSS for comprehensive coverage.
How do I find housing in Mexico?
Start with short-term rentals through Airbnb or similar platforms while exploring neighborhoods. Long-term rentals can be found on Facebook groups, local real estate websites, or by walking around and noting rental signs. Negotiating rent is common and can often lower costs.
Can I bring my pet to Mexico?
Yes, you can bring your pet to Mexico, but you’ll need to comply with Mexican import regulations. The rules have changed recently, what you will need to bring your pet to Mexico:
Minimum age: The dog must be at least six months old.
Microchip: An ISO-compatible microchip.
CDC Form: Complete it two to ten days before the trip.
Rabies vaccination.
Health certificate including Screw worm examination.
What’s the best way to meet people and build a community?
Join expat Facebook groups, attend local events like farmers’ markets and art fairs, or volunteer with charities to meet like-minded people. Taking language classes is also a great way to connect with locals and other expats.
How to a get a Mexican Drivers License
To obtain a driver’s license in Mexico as a resident, you’ll need to visit your local Secretaría de Movilidad y Transporte (SEMOVI) or equivalent office with required documents, including your Temporary or Permanent Resident Visa, CURP, proof of address, and valid ID. Some states may also require your RFC or foreign driver’s license. You’ll typically need to pass a vision test, a written exam on traffic laws, and a practical driving test unless your foreign license can be exchanged. Costs range from $20–$50 USD depending on the state and license validity (1–5 years). The process is usually completed in one day, and having a Mexican license ensures compliance with local laws as a resident.
FINAL THOUGHTS
Moving to Mexico has been one of the most enriching experiences of my life. While challenges like navigating bureaucracy or adapting to cultural differences exist, they’re far outweighed by the warmth of the people, rich culture, and incredible quality of life.
Whether you’re sipping coffee in a sunlit plaza, exploring vibrant mercados, or hiking through lush jungles, Mexico offers endless opportunities for adventure and personal growth. With preparation and an open mind, you’ll soon see why so many expats call this beautiful country home.
What excites you most about moving to Mexico? Let me know in the comments, or reach out with your questions—I’m here to help!
About the Author
Tim is a seasoned travel writer and the creator of Out in Mexico, a dedicated resource for gay travelers exploring Mexico’s vibrant destinations. After relocating to Guadalajara, he has spent years immersing himself in Mexico’s gay culture, from the iconic beaches of Puerto Vallarta to the nightlife of Mexico City.
With firsthand experience in Mexico’s gay scene, Tim has personally visited the bars, hotels, and events featured in this guide. His insights have helped gay travelers plan unforgettable trips while ensuring they feel safe, welcomed, and informed.
When he’s not writing, you’ll find him sipping a mezcal cocktail at a bar in Guadalajara or travel to a new exciting destination in Mexico.
Aubrey and her wife are preparing to leave the United States for Costa Rica in January – a decision they haven’t taken lightly, after building a life as homeowners in upstate New York.
She says months of unease about the political climate in the United States – from debates over LGBT rights to concerns about basic safety – finally tipped them into making a plan to leave.
Her story is far from unique, according to a recent survey by US analytics firm Gallup which suggests 40% of American women aged 15 to 44 would move abroad if they had the opportunity.
These figures reflect aspirations rather than intentions, but they appear to highlight a trend that Gallup says began more than a decade ago – a growing number of younger American women reassessing where they see their futures.
The rise has also created the largest gender gap in migration aspirations that Gallup has ever recorded, with only 19% of younger men saying they want to leave the US.
Although Aubrey’s decision crystallised in the last few months, under the Trump presidency, the trend has been apparent for many years – starting at the end of the Obama administration, according to Gallup.
Pressures have been building on women from the left and the right, says Nadia E Brown, professor of government and chair of the women’s and gender studies at Georgetown University.
“It’s not just partisan politics,” says Professor Brown. “Women feel caught between expectations from both sides – traditional roles promoted by conservatives, and the pressures of progressive working life. Neither path guarantees autonomy or dignity, and that leaves women considering alternatives like moving abroad.”
Economic reasons like student loans, the rising cost of healthcare and the cost of home ownership are also factors in shaping young women’s decisions to forge a life in another country, she adds.
A recent survey from the Harris Poll – a US market research firm – suggested 40% of Americans have considered moving abroad, with many citing lower living costs as their main reason. The largest demographic groups thinking of moving were Gen Z and Millennials.
‘No strong work-life balance in US’
Kaitlin, 31, who moved from the US to Portugal four years ago, says there wasn’t one big reason why she decided to move abroad but she felt compelled to ditch her day job to explore a new life somewhere else.
“I was working a 9-to-5 in Los Angeles, and every day felt exactly the same. There’s not a strong work-life balance in the US. I wanted to live somewhere with a different pace, different cultures, and learn a new language.”
She now lives in Lisbon, works remotely as a freelancer, and says the lower cost of living and strong social culture have made her feel “more like a whole person again”.
“I can’t imagine ever going back to the US”, she says.
Despite the non-political nature of decisions made by people like Kaitlin, a clear political divide emerged in 2017, with those who disapproved of the Trump presidency far more likely to want to leave, according to the Gallup data, which was based on 1,000 interviews.
The number of young women expressing an interest in leaving actually fell this year compared with Biden’s final year in office but the gender gap has now reached its widest level.
Interest in moving abroad is also rising among Americans using platforms that help plan relocations and explore new countries. Expatsi, which offers scouting trips, expert consultations, and relocation services, has reported a spike in younger women’s interest in recent years.
“Expatsi data shows a clear gender trend,” says its co-founder Jen Barnett. “Our clientele has always been two-thirds or more women, but our first big bump in traffic came after Roe v Wade was overturned.”
‘Women’s rights were being stripped away in real time’
For Alyssa, a 34-year-old mother who moved from the US to Uruguay earlier this year, the decision to leave wasn’t just about lifestyle – it was a response to political and social pressures that felt immediate and personal.
She first began seriously thinking about leaving three years ago, after the US Supreme Court overturned the Roe v Wade ruling – ending the constitutional right to abortion in the US – but didn’t make the move until early 2025.
“I have children and I don’t plan on having more, but the increasing governance of women’s bodies terrified me. I felt like women’s rights were being stripped away in real time,” she explains.
As a Latina, she felt unsafe because of rhetoric around immigration in the US, even as a US citizen. “I genuinely feared being detained in front of my kids,” she says.
Confidence in major US institutions drops
Another related issue on which a gender divide appears to have widened is the matter of Americans’ trust in institutions, including the Supreme Court.
This has also sunk to historic lows, according to data from Gallup. Just 26% of Americans say they trust the presidency, 14% trust Congress and fewer than half express confidence in the court.
But the decline has been especially precipitous among young women.
Their scores have fallen by 17 points since 2015 – the sharpest decline of any demographic. Confidence dropped during both the Trump and Biden administrations.
Some women are also weighing practical concerns like healthcare, and climate – factors that can tip the balance when considering a move abroad.
Marina plans to leave the US for Portugal next May with her boyfriend. “Healthcare not being a human right in this country is a huge part of why we’re leaving.”
“We also want to live somewhere where gun violence is unlikely,” she added, citing a decades-old issue in America. “In Portugal it’s much harder to get a gun – that alone makes life feel safer.”
For Marina and her boyfriend, the challenges at home have made the decision to leave the US more urgent – including the nightmare of his house flooding during increasingly extreme weather, another issue that has intensified in recent decades.
“We’re tired of the climate here – it’s become unbearably hot, and it feels like there’s a natural disaster every year now.”
Her concerns reflect a broader mix of economic, environmental and safety pressures drawing younger women towards Europe and elsewhere.
A global trend
Younger American women were previously less likely than those in other advanced economies to see their futures abroad, Gallup has documented, a trend that has reversed since the late 2000s and early 2010s.
But Professor Brown says this “isn’t just a US problem”.
“Women in many countries are navigating similar challenges. The US just happens to be one where these pressures are particularly visible and acute,” she says.
Access to subsidies for childcare and healthcare, which are more common in Europe, can impact an American woman’s decision to move abroad.
“People don’t realise how far behind the US is on maternal care, parental leave, and healthcare,” Alyssa says, “until they leave the country.”
Across the country, LGBTQ+ Americans, people of color, women, religious minorities, and others who feel newly vulnerable under the second Trump administration are quietly constructing “Plan B” escape strategies: securing second residencies, lining up alternate passports, moving assets offshore, scouting communities abroad, or mapping literal escape routes to sanctuary states or neighboring countries.
Some are wealthy enough to buy investment visas in Europe. Others are applying for digital nomad permits that require little more than proof of remote income. Still others are assembling go-bags, stockpiling medication, or rehearsing how they would reach the Canadian border if federal restrictions tightened.
But the phenomenon, a blend of dread, pragmatism, and resignation, is unmistakably rising. None of the people interviewed for this story wants to leave their country. All emphasized that they hope their Plan B remains unused.
They are preparing anyway, because, they say, preparation now feels like survival.
A business built on American anxiety
Eric Major, CEO of the London-based global migration firm Latitude, says his American business has undergone a transformation.
“What used to be a 90 percent, ‘I’m not moving, but I want an insurance policy,’ is now turning into, ‘No, I am moving,’” Major said. “People are saying, ‘I don’t like what I’m hearing or what I’m living or what I’m experiencing.’”
Major, whose company operates across Europe and the Americas, says the shift began in late 2023 and accelerated after Trump’s second inauguration in January, when the administration moved quickly to reinstate the transgendermilitary ban, strip LGBTQ+ recognition from federal websites, and target health care and civil rights protections.
For LGBTQ+ clients, timelines are now one of the first concerns.
The timeline: from 30 days to two years
Major stressed that processing times vary dramatically depending on the country, the type of visa, and how overwhelmed that nation is by American demand.
He says some countries operate at almost lightning speed: Costa Rica, Panama, and other smaller jurisdictions can process residency in as little as 30 to 60 days, depending on background checks and documentation. Malta, too, can process a residency application in approximately three months, making it one of the faster European programs, Major said.
Meanwhile, he noted, countries like Portugal offer popular pathways but now struggle under the sheer volume of applicants. Major said that Portugal’s processing time ranges from six months on the low end to nearly two years on the high end, describing it as a country “victim of its own success.”
Canada, from where Major is originally from, he added, has become similarly stretched; in his experience, no one should expect to receive anything there in under 18 months.
He also emphasized the importance of timing and planning in the application process. Suppose clients know they cannot move until a certain date. In that case, he says the firm essentially reverse-engineers the application, starting preparations early but holding submission to align with a client’s planned departure. Some countries require newly approved residents to arrive almost immediately after approval, he said, which means planning a move is as important as qualifying for one.
‘America is not a safe place in my mind right now’
For “Mark,” not his real name, a gay New Yorker who works as both a physician and a consultant, the ability to pursue multiple residencies is directly tied to his financial circumstances, something he is quick to acknowledge.
He describes himself as “speaking from a very affluent gay perspective,” noting that he has the freedom to work remotely, the savings to invest abroad, and the professional flexibility to relocate. “I have the ability to do such things,” he said. “For me, it was a very no-brainer decision.”
He said the speed at which he could leave mattered as much as the destination.
“When Trump was in office first, I saw the writing on the wall,” Mark told The Advocate in an interview. “I decided one needed an escape mechanism from the United States.”
Mark obtained residency in Portugal, formed a company to gain residency in Panama, and secured status in a Caribbean country. These routes required financial resources, but he stressed that even many of his patients, including those with modest means, are pursuing lower-cost options such as digital nomad visas or temporary residency permits.
Mark said that a significant portion of his own patient population is preparing similar contingency plans. “At least 40 percent of my patients, and 100 percent of my gay patients, all have other residencies now.”
He pointed to Spain’s digital nomad visa, noting that one only needs to show roughly $3,000 in monthly income to qualify. In that program, he said, people can obtain residency and health care after a few years, then become eligible for citizenship after that.
The process brought him a profound sense of security.
“America is not a safe place in my mind right now,” he said. “I’m not going to allow my rights to be taken away from me by some insane lunatic.”
For trans Americans, the calculus is existential
For transgender Americans, the stakes feel even sharper.
Robert, a transgender man in his 60s living in a blue coastal state, began planning immediately after Trump’s inauguration, when the administration reimposed the transgender military ban and targeted trans people’s access to accurate passports and federal recognition.
“I thought we were headed down an authoritarian path — maybe even fascist,” Robert said. “The probability wasn’t zero.”
He initially researched so-called golden passports in the Caribbean, but quickly realized two issues: several of the countries selling them were not LGBTQ+ friendly, and the programs often required investments of $200,000 to $300,000 without guaranteeing a safe environment.
He instead turned to residency programs in Europe and selected Malta, which he identified as one of the most LGBTQ-protective countries in the world. Robert is now deep into the process: he has submitted all documentation, paid the first government fee, and is awaiting final approval before traveling for a required biometric appointment.
But immigration paperwork is only part of his Plan B. Robert has also stockpiled testosterone, a controlled substance, in case access becomes restricted. He has consulted attorneys to secure his real estate holdings, mapped out strategies for exiting the country if his passport is invalidated, and established protocols with his financial institution so that, with a single trigger phrase, his liquid assets can be moved or protected. He said the financial professionals he spoke to did not consider him paranoid; instead, they viewed these preparations as reasonable under the circumstances.
He also acknowledged that his preparation is not something every trans person can do. “My situation is privileged and unique,” he said. “The only thing I tell other trans folks is to at least make a Plan B, even if it’s just knowing how to get to a sanctuary state or across the border.”
For Robert, the red line that would prompt immediate departure is if the government starts signaling that transgender people’s passports could be restricted or invalidated. He said that any move toward requiring trans people to carry identifying markers or any early signs of authoritarian control would also trigger his exit. “Anything akin to the initial steps taken by a fascist regime,” he said.
A new American story
Beyond the logistics and financial planning, the emotional weight of this new reality is heavy.
“People don’t think of what their choices do to people like me,” Robert said. “There’s this level of apathy.”
Mark expressed a similar warning. “Don’t be too late,” he said. “When they start taking passports away and closing borders, it’s too late.”
Major sees this shift reflected in nearly every conversation he has with American clients today. While the process begins with lifestyle questions, financial disclosures, and paperwork, he says the deeper shift is psychological. “Americans are asking: If it gets really bad, where do I go?”
Everyone interviewed emphasized the same hope: that they will never need to use their Plan B.
But preparation itself has become a form of survival.
“I feel it’s a good feeling to be prepared,” Robert said. “I hope I never have to use it. But I’m not willing to gamble my future.”
Mark echoed him, reflecting on how drastically the national mood has shifted. “People usually moved to the United States for better lives. Now people are leaving the United States for better lives.”
Are you thinking about leaving the United States for safety, stability, or a better quality of life? In this powerful conversation, we sit down with Dan Brotman, an American expat based in Montreal who specializes in investment migration—including Golden Visas, Digital Nomad Visas, and residency-by-investment options tailored to the LGBTQ+ community.
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A 5-day ICU stay for $19
An emergency room visit in Canada that cost $0
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🧠 Financial Relief & Peace of Mind
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🎓 Education & Opportunity
Why families are sending their children to Europe—especially the Netherlands—for nearly free, world-class university education.
🏳️🌈 Rights, Safety & Community
Dan discusses LGBTQ+ rights, abortion access, universal healthcare, and gun laws in Canada—issues considered settled and not weaponized politically.
🚨 Red Lines & Safety Planning
We explore how LGBTQ+ people can assess danger, decide their personal boundaries, and obtain the documentation needed to leave quickly if the situation in the U.S. deteriorates.
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Life for LGBTQ+ people has gotten worse since Donald Trump was elected for a second term — and they’re been forced to make major changes to protect themselves.
Since the November election, the majority (57 percent) of LGBTQ+ people — including 84 percent of transgender and nonbinary people — have made significant life decisions, according to a new report from the Movement Advancement Project. This includes considering or actually moving to a different state, considering or actually finding a different job, attempting to update legal name or gender markers on identity documents, and crossing state lines to receive medical care.
While nearly half of all trans people (43 percent) and one quarter of all LGBTQ+ people (25 percent) have considered moving to a different state, only 9 percent of trans people and 5 percent of all LGBTQ+ people report they’ve actually moved since November.
Part of what is forcing their hands is the increased discrimination and violence against queer people, as 60 percent of LGBTQ+ people, including 82 percent of trans and nonbinary people, report that they or an immediate family member have had at least one negative experience related to being LGBTQ+ since the November, 2024 election.
Trans respondents reported these experiences nearly twice as often as all LGBTQ+ respondents, with 56 percent saying they or an immediate family member have been discriminated against due to being LGBTQ+, and 53 percent saying they have been harassed online.
Six in 10 LGBTQ+ people say they are worried about the impacts of Trump’s anti-LGBTQ+ policies on them or their families. For trans people, the number is nine in 10. Trans people are also significantly more likely to say they are “very worried,” with 60 percent agreeing compared to 36 percent of all LGBTQ+ people.
“As political attacks on LGBTQ people by federal, state, and local governments continue into the future, it is likely that these impacts will only accumulate,” the report concludes. “While the survey illustrates some of the many ways LGBTQ people are taking action to protect not only themselves but also their broader community, it is vital that people beyond LGBTQ people join in these efforts to protect their LGBTQ neighbors, friends, and family members, and to stop the ongoing attacks on LGBTQ people.”
In this powerful interview, Paul – one of our clients who relocated from Texas to a blue state – shares his firsthand experience of why preparation matters. Drawing on his own move, Paul explains why LGBTQ+ individuals and allies living in red states need to think about a “Plan B” now, not later.
From getting passports and wills in order to recognizing the rising risks of scapegoating against the trans and gay communities, Paul delivers clear, actionable advice:
“If you’ve been waiting to press the button to go — press the button.”
“Have an escape plan. And I mean it.”
We also discuss:
How to prepare essential paperwork (passports, wills, vital documents)
What recent events reveal about scapegoating and rising risks
Why safety planning — even down to event logistics — is critical
Lessons learned from unexpected threats, doxxing, and open carry encounters at public events
If you’re wondering whether to stay or leave a red state, or you’re ready to start planning your next steps, this interview will give you practical tools and candid insight to help you make informed decisions.
Watch now and learn how to stay prepared. Don’t wait — take action today.
How to prepare essential paperwork (passports, wills, vital documents)
Watch now and learn how to stay prepared. Don’t wait — take action today.
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